We feel good about our choices, but know it might not be the right path for everyone. I wish I know things better and would have taken a different path in life. She views patriarchy as a quality of God. I would go ahead and make boundaries with the conversation about kids and church, if that is your preference. I get looking ahead, but it seems like you are very unhappy with the way things are now. Mormon girls are thirsting for strong, confident, masculine men. I am a lawyers wife. He would not appreciate my sacrifice of course, because they are often very self-center mind.
True Believer Mos base their actions on a set of priorities that make no sense to Nomos. Some mormon girls are closeted freaks as someone here has already said. He is a great doctor and everyone loves him great that makes it easy there are always going to be flirty women if you are not a strong women then run. All this said, God is love and fully understands and appreciates your problem. I love my husband with my whole soul.
Save her and yourself more pain by ending it before you fall in love. Feel guilty I brought children into this loneliness They know NO different though. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size.
With that same attitude they will rise up on the other side of the veil. If we truly love someone, we have to make sacrifices. I think the most important thing is to bring up the issues as questions rather than points as why she's wrong.