So any support on how to deal with ocd behavior, heavy handed opinions, would be helpful. I don't want to sound like I hate what he does but it's really difficult to be flex parents every time. But I could make it very romantic indeed. You see, I am the guy, and she is the established doctor dermatologist. I am married to a doctor for one year now.
It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop. Do you work Easter, the day after your baby is born, weekends, nights. The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. And most of those end up with both people losing their faith or a divorce. It may not seem like a big deal now, but eventually it will probably surface that at best, the church impacts and influences her behavior in almost every area, at worst, it dictates it. But he told me that he needs a wife who could take care of him, kids and house. Do you have to leave for work at six in the morning and don't get home until you kids are in bed. Richard often laments that if he had taken a tech job, he would have been able to actually make a damn good salary for the last 8 years instead of going into debt with med school and making zero money. I learned how truly very Mormon I really am, to the deepest part of my soul.
If this happens, it might click something in her mind that says that what she experienced was pleasurable and she would like to have it again. Except his wife was and still is a witch. Yet others are really great human beings. Within a cultural group marriage is hard.
As I started to date and fall in love with my husband, almost everyone I knew was against it. But life is long and eternal and all righteous people will choose the right at the end. We might not always like the way some priesthood holders act, but to disparage the priesthood is not being responsible.