Guys try—they really do. This JimmyJane Form 3 vibrator mimics the look and feel of a tongue. Buy it now from the Women's Health Boutique! Make Pit Stops Getting up, shifting your body down, and honing in on her vagina like a heat-seeking tongue missile is the opposite of sexy. Work your way down by kissing her neck, breasts, stomach, and inner thighs. Then you can go in for the kill.
Be patient and pay attention to rhythm
But great oral sex can send a woman to 7th heaven, to say the least. For women, cunnilingus is the equivalent of a blowjob for men. Your girl will thank you and ask for it again and again. Another thing that women love about oral sex is the aspect of extreme intimacy and sensuality to be found in the mouth, lips, and tongue of her man, at once hot and wet, fluctuating between sweetness and strength. As a general rule, a woman needs more time to reach orgasm than a man. This rule applies to oral sex, too, so keep that in mind. Be patient and keep a good sense of rhythm when you decide to go down on your girl. Regardless, it always takes longer than making a man come from a blowjob. You need to make different movements with your tongue and your mouth, while using your hands and fingers on other parts of her body, as well.
How to Give a Girl Oral Sex That Makes Her Climax
Stuff we feel neutral about: Chicken pot pie. But one thing you shouldn't have a take-it-or-leave-it attitude towards is tongue action. Oral is the form of sex that the majority of women say is most likely to give them an orgasm, says sex therapist Ian Kerner, PhD, author of She Comes First.
Instead of engaging in a spelling bee during oral sex, take some advice from me — a seasoned lesbian with over two decades of experience both receiving and giving oral sex. Communication during oral sex is about more than just moans and heavy breathing though that counts, too! You want to maximize your partner's sexual pleasure, and that means communicating with her before, during, and even after the act. Where does she enjoy being touched? Which motion feels good for her? By keeping the communication open, having no assumptions and learning to figure out what pleases each person, you should be able to give incredible head. Consensual experimentation with different positions , speeds and techniques is a great way to find out what will leave her in ecstasy. Great music never starts off with the crescendo — it always builds up. Female orgasms are similar.