It MAY be true that a year in, her shelf will crack and she'll leave with him. The important thing is that you are getting to know one another, not that you are always doing fancy things. Log into your account.
I've been seeing a doctor for two years now. Listen to the still small voiceв. You have been blessed with the equipment to make such decisions. Most likely, the relationship isn't going to survive your differences in belief. I knew a couple in my last ward who got married in their mid 20's. I've been married to a cardiologist for 30 years. Make up stories about being a soldier at war or a sailor at sea keeping me away from my love. You don't have to believe them yourself, but you need that respect in thought as well as action, and you need to frame this as your own journey because you can only change yourself. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic.
I've been dating my girl for 5 years and we have just broke up because she told me she likes someone else but she say she still loves me I have been married for 8 months, my husband is starting his training in orthopaedics Never imagined my life will be like this The 3 years we were together prior marriage when he was an intern were not like this at all I read all the comments and I can see there no much hope for things to improve Constant absences, constants arguments, I have to make myself available when he is available, I am an architect, I have a demanding job myself, but still beings doctor seems to be a lot more important than my career. God told me to marry my husband. I went to BYU. Mormonism is a lot more controlling and has a lot more downsides. Facebook Email Twitter Print. You see, I am the guy, and she is the established doctor dermatologist. She will be pressured and will likely shut you out. I found that it worked just as well. I've heard way too many stories of people breaking up with amazing people and they end up alone or in a less happy relationship.
Does that make sense. The doctrinal and afterlife issues around a non-temple marriage are an entirely different topic, and one that I am personally much more at peace with than my questions about how one might make an interfaith marriage work in this life. But, if ever were there were a time to be overly cautious it's with this topic. It's not fair to put words in her mouth and thoughts in her brain like this. Doesn't leave many options here though but better than constantly having them push the church on you until you either give in and convert or break up. There are other issues at play here that are my husband's personal history and that he is now trying to come to grips with, and I have hope that we can put our marriage and our family back together-but the job marches on, relentlessly, and there is no time allotted for personal healing.
