And, for anyone "dating" a married doctor. My religious faith saved my sanity but I still worry. Am constantly trying to be the understanding girlfriend and try to remain humble towards him at all times but It hurts a lot. Either it's enough for you - or it's not. I often feel it's harder than being a single mom because the false hope is just torture. March 19, And congratulations, "lovableluciferian" for walking away from the precipice of an untenable relationship. The Mormon church is certainly a time consuming church. When out on a date with a Mormon guy or girl, be very decent, courteous, and well-mannered.
She cried when you proclaimed your love of goodness because, in part, it was a sign that you weren't broken and desperate for Mormonism. It may change your relationship to them forever. Propagandists in the media throw around the word patriarchy as if it is synonymous with anything male. He was also a poor communicator and felt he didn't need to voice certain things, like 'I love you'. I would have been deeply insulted if anyone talked about me the way people are talking about this girl He needs to tell her there is a no chance he will convert, that he is not comfortable with his children being raised Mormon if he isn'tthat she cannot ever expect a temple marriage with him. God brought the two of us together, and we are truly in love. Let her go right now then. Try to have a date night once a week and when your Dr Spouse has time off go somewhere. The church didn't do it to her but it helped create the environment that allowed it to happen.
This woman has already given two full years fully devoted to the institution without question. I feel I am not appreciated and valued as a wife. So if we only have a few hours of time to spend together one night a week, sometimes we will have plans to watch a movie but then things quickly turn into sex and before we know it the night is over. Hopefully, it will give a little insight into Mormonism's insidiousness.
It is highly likely that she will pressure you to convert, and if you resist, she may resent you for being the barrier to her being sealed to her children. I've decided not to mention the CES letter or anything that could be considered "anti-mormon. If you aren't sealed together, say good-bye for eternity. Know her limits on substances. There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. I wouldn't just give up, but be wary. It seems like a minor point, but I have noticed that every Mormon girl who disobeys the Mormon direction to avoid coffee has something majorly wrong with her. Maybe it won't be a big deal. It's an issue I just have to live with if I want to be with him, and I do, so I live with it.