Of course I have time for my SOs, of course I give of myself to them. The bottom line is that you are setting yourself up for difficult times ahead. Stick around on this sub. You guys sound like you have a great and committed relationship - a true jewel in this world. The idea of a rich doctor is almost antiquated. I need suggestions to handld the neurotic behavior, ocd, and opinions. It seems like a minor point, but I have noticed that every Mormon girl who disobeys the Mormon direction to avoid coffee has something majorly wrong with her. After being in relationship with him for 3 years, he broke up with me, I did everything possible to bring him back but all was in vain, I wanted him back so much because of the love I have for him, I begged him with everything, I made promises but he refused. It won't be easy.
Once his residency is over, you'll have more time together, but that's going to be a while from now. You are commenting using your WordPress. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. This can be a good way to learn more about your personalities. We lived about miles apart for the first 2 years. I hear you, I need my down time to decompress and watch stuff on the Internet, haha. And what you're saying about having a great night and then an amazing few days after before he disappears and you feel like shit again I also hate that he doesn't text me until he is ready to make plans again, although I did ask him to text me more often and he has gotten a little better about it. That's all we're really saying.
Thanks for the help. Does it mostly depend on his specialty or just how he prioritizes things. While I miss talking to him, I also would prefer the nonverbal stuff sometimes too. It's been really helpful already. Be prepared for divorce. Anytime he is with me and "our" son he is on call, distracted or "needs" time to watch football and golf. If yes, do you promise to not proselytize to me and let me drink a simple cup of coffee in my own home. I will have time to build a life with friends and activities and travel of which he will be a minor part. We started dating 16 years ago, and both resigned from the church earlier this year. Don't put them through that either.
Play with fire if you don't fear getting burned. It is not the norm. Propagandists in the media throw around the word patriarchy as if it is synonymous with anything male.