The issue is that we have really spectacular sex that will often last for hours including foreplay haha, not all PIV, thank God. It's a heart-wrenching story. A Mormon will tearfully and emotionally recite whichever lesson they need at the given moment. I wouldn't wish this shit on my enemy. I didn't hear from him all day, is that normal. When you are disappointed that he is called into the hospital, focus on what he is providing for someone in need. If your spouse thinks 8 is too young to get baptized, are you all right with waiting until they are older.
She might want to follow the 'virgin until marriage' part, or she may personally decide to forego following that in secret. If yes, do you promise to not proselytize to me and let me drink a simple cup of coffee in my own home. I have had more than one girl, who I had definite chemsitry with, who the girl really liked me and we had deep and intense conversations as well as a real physichal connection to. I understand that, and accept that. Finding a person with whom your wavelength matches, and around whom you feel you can just be yourself, talk about anything, and not be worried about being judged, is not as easy as the romantic movies and TV soaps make it out to be. Cousin the same age who just got married has known her husband 6 months.
And now he is in his 60s. After his mission he lost faith on everything for some reasons. I'm the kind of person that believes that it is just tacky in general to break up or end things via text, but that was my only option. And if you do belong to a ward full of cretins, you must do everyone a favor and just ignore them until they go extinct.
If you like her, and I'm assuming you do, I would suggest you continue the relationship and see how things pan out. Then you might want to talk about all the things her church requires. You must either really love blue balls, or else she is not a real deal Mormon girl. Work out as many as you can before marriage happens. There is no question this is the true church. And on the other hand the thought of having to go through these residency years ahead haunts me. When I come home, I don't necessarily want to be alone, I just need to do things that will calm or recharge me instead of things that will tire me out more. Sounds like classic "flirt to convert.