His single doctor friends have so much more time and money to spend on lavish overseas holidays and recreational activities, while every spare moment the husband has to spend at home, helping with the children and all the responsibilities that entails. I also studied his advice for approaching and dating women. It will be up to you, her man, to support the positive expectations. When I do open up to one or two close female family member, they often tell me that their husbands are equally unavailable and I should not complaint. I'm sitting here after a hour night shift, still having to wash and fold his shirts for his return, clean the house, keep the pantry stocked up as well as support my business, feeling quite resentful of the fact that he's being wined and dined by the upper class at fancy restaurants. It did not go well.
Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. Learned by me in time and tears. Some of the guests talked about the importance of helping hard core mormons to be open and accepting to ALL their brothers and sisters in the church, regardless of sexual orientation. Mormons are very strict about avoiding sex outside of marriage.
Go on your different ways as friends and don't expect your relationship to go anywhere. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives. I've luckily broken down my GF's defenses about the church a little bit.
I met him today and we talked about what he wants to do in the future. In retrospect, I believe I was being led to my current spouse. Yup, know how that feels. Now learn about how all of your doubts can be resolved through apologetics. For me, one of those bouncers is my marriage to the most wonderful woman alive. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. I am willing to add his religious observances to our worship as a couple and as a family, but should I also be willing to give up some of my participation in my own faith в for example by attending the temple or Sunday services slightly less often in order to spend more time as an entire family. I guess I was just hoping there was way for it to work.