I too feel that I am becoming a mistress to his own career. He may never come out and say it, but if you mention marriage outside of the church and he's OK with it, you have a slight chance of being happily married to her and not being mormon. You aren't engaged or married or anything, you can't just know that she won't see the light and remain crazy Mormon forever. I can no longer spend more than 30 minutes in the sun. In 5 years, one thing has become certain to me. You should ask yourself if you want to have input on the way your children are raised. I am so happy to have found this blog. Because you are a good person, you will recognize the influence of the Holy Ghost and know that the church is true.
We are doing long distance at the moment and I was wondering if you have any advice. If you can love them unconditionally with how they are now, then I say go for it. Even if she does, you'll be the reason in her family's eyes. It seems to me like you are walking into a relationship where there is a significant disconnect from the start. Life After Mormonism Chat. I just wanted to tell you that I am grateful for your words!. While there are some differences noted here, in many ways you should treat them the same way you would girls of other faiths. She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. Inthe same year she moved cross-country again. Thank you for this site.
If you do believe it fully, are you not really going to want him to make the conversion ultimately. Ragonk If you don't get it, never mind. As the patriarchal leader, it will be up to you to figure it out and to dispel her unrealistic fantasies.
I really like this girl but, is Mormonism so toxic that I should just sever the relationship before it gets serious. Tell her that you want your relationship with her, and her relationship with your children together to be separate from her religion with her god. It all depends on the girl. The history of racism and violence is upsetting. The sons inevitably went inactive later in life. I felt her fear, everything she's said, I said. But it is the path we have to go through to get to that point that really scares me.