I would say though that racial differences are NOT like religious differences, certainly not those between Mo and Nomo. Married to a Surgeon as well. Not to mention, he became angry and hostile towards me during the break up. Don't wait for it to eventually fall apart or hope that she will change. Dozens of missionaries have told me that the gender ratios in other countries are far, far worse. Sadly, my ward shuns us. Try a variety of dates. We have been married 2 years and have a 4 month old baby. But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either.
I learned that going out and having fun with friends every single weekend was not going to be part of our lifestyle together due to time restrictions, tiredness, etc. He was the best decision I have ever made in my life, hands down. And here we are with our trivial problems. But, you will probably lose.
Like many of you ladies I also feel like I'm getting the scraps of his time. Read our Exit Stories from Mormonism. Well, you won't be getting into anything soon.
I'll tell her that we are strictly friends for now on. I've been married to a Cardiothoracic and Vascular surgeon for As a matter of fact, I always said that I wouldn't, lol. It's scary to feel like you might never measure up to someone's expectations you love. It seems to me like you are walking into a relationship where there is a significant disconnect from the start.