I am willing to add his religious observances to our worship as a couple and as a family, but should I also be willing to give up some of my participation in my own faith в for example by attending the temple or Sunday services slightly less often in order to spend more time as an entire family. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. Although there are no strict rules as to who should do the asking, the Mormons are very conservative and in general, they expect guys to do the asking. Do you work Easter, the day after your baby is born, weekends, nights. When you said that the doctor spouse sacrifices for their patients and their family sacrifices for the doctor's career, it really described my situation. All I can do is Trust in God. Another simple and doable option is to go online; there are many LDS dating sites where you can sign up and meet new and interesting people. Can I leave him now. Based on what you have written about your GF, my opinion is that you should cut your losses and move on. My advice would be to date him when he has free time.
Most of us were Mormons and one point, many of us were even TBMs. All parent-child relationships do. I think that if these two really care about each other that she should be told to take a moment and ask herself how she would feel if they break up over this and years later she finally researches her religion. He did not like the idea of early morning seminary and he told me I was old enough to make my own choice to serve a mission, but he strongly advised against it. He has sacrificed parts of his career as well. But the issue of marrying a non-member raises two fundamental problems: That idea seems so contrary to the nature of God. Juggle them with a working wife, a housewife with children and things become difficult. Chances are you can't though. He stated he is in his 30's and established, and incapable of changing….
Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. It hasn't been easy for me to create a regular social life that involves me missing a husband. Whereas white and black may both sleep in on Sunday and tie their left shoes first, Mos have a set of behavioral norms that are in serious conflict with Nomo lifestyles. In childhood, that includes the majority. Early in our relationship, I gave some thought to the question of whether I would ever be willing to marry a non-Mormon. If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on. I think that Doctors have to be selfish to a degree. I think love and caring can be more important. To her, if you don't marry in the temple, she will probably do it after you die anyway.
And he is reading one of my favorite Buddhist-based books, in an effort to understand my beliefs. What she taught is different from what the essays admit happened. He said that if there is an exception, it is for the individual to obtain through the spirit. Am I sure I can handle the lifestyle. I tried telling him that I know myself enough that I would not be happy in this kind of relationship. I seriously could have been the one to write most of that about my situation. At first it didn't bother me, but after a while I started feeling more like a booty call and less like a SO. He would not appreciate my sacrifice of course, because they are often very self-center mind.