I let things slide often not thinking it is worth a battle. If you and she are not sealed, your children won't be sealed to either of you. I just wanted to let SN and AD know that, if you decide to choose this path, you are not alone. When my nephews started looking at porn on computers everybody blamed me when it wasn't me. He studies all day and night I live in my own world and my own circle. I'm pointing this out because I don't know her and couldn't tell you what to expect. And occasionally I have queried the wisdom of that choice. Avoid the topic when you can, it's not something that'll be pretty unless handled in a calm discussion which Well, people as a whole tend to be pretty immature with big topics.
What do you guys do about this-- do you go with your spouse. I'm so glad we waited until now instead of jumping into it right then, because I have learned a ton and the learning curve of being with a doctor is far more steep than it is to be with someone who is not married to their job. Yes, those of us in the hospital work longer and harder days than most people with 9 to 5s, but we still have off days. The way he wanted to live his life, the family he wanted to have, the wife he dreamt of- matched the type of person I longed for. I have been married for 2 years now and I'm concerned that if we dont work something out soon, it will only get worse as he dives into his profession even further. We don't have many nights out and he does sleep when he can but he has a surgeon's ego and so being great in bed is a priority for him. Business of Medicine Navigate the complex business, legal, and ethical arenas towards building and maintaining a successful medical practice. A couple of quick thoughts: December 12, at 9: December 13, at 2: December 13, at 8: December 13, at 4: December 13, at 6: December 14, at 6: December 17, at 7: December 19, at December 19, at 1: December 19, at 4: December 22, at 9: December 27, at 7: Also, be prepared for Mormon jokes.
It's really somethi g to watch a person who is so self absorbed. Usually, when Mormon girls marry non-Mormon men, these women forsake their religion and revert to ordinary American woman. They're very caring in some ways, but lack where it matters most. No complaints whatsoever though GF or BF and spouses of physicians quickly understand that medicine isn't a profession Many times you will be second. I worked my butt off and supported our family through internship, residency and two fellowships always looking forward to the day when he would finally be in practice and things would get 'easier". That's my two cents. I told her that is noble but she would be selfish to marry and work 80 hour work weeks yet if she does marry I can not see any man who would selflessly give over decades for the sake of his wife's career. However, from what I have seen he has all of the qualities I want from someone long-term. Some Mormons believe the Telestial Kingdom will be littered with spouses who refused to get baptized.