When we obsess over it we start acting like a customer in a clothing store wondering what he or she will look like if they wear that particular wardrobe. And he needs to trust his instincts if he thinks she's being dishonest. And here's an excellent video on the importance of religious freedom. Life After Mormonism Chat.
There are times where u rarely hear from him and then he contacts me. Have you created your Facebook Club yet. She encourages me to develop my skills and talents, and provides an example in several of those areas.
She cried when you proclaimed your love of goodness because, in part, it was a sign that you weren't broken and desperate for Mormonism. If your spouse believes in infant baptism, will you allow the children to have that. Be open and talk about your ideals. I was born and raised in the LDS faith. It has been very therapeutic to read about other people's experiences. I also studied his advice for approaching and dating women. I explained to her that from my perspective, if a religious person does something good, you can't trust them because they're doing it for the wrong reasons: When an atheist does something good, you know they're not doing it for any reason other than to help someone else. Initially I thought he would join the church and life would get back on the only track I knew.
If you can live with some auxiliary authority in your life knowing that your wife will, as necessary, bend to its will instead of yours, you'll cross those bridges as you come to them. In the end people have to make their own decisions. We did things differently this time around, especially now with some maturity and perspective. Not every LDS person does, unfortunately. Welcome to the future.