She got engaged 3 months later. Much good luck, and keep us in the loop. I completely relate to all you've written; many of us have come to see Mormonism for what it is, and the severe damage it does to human brains. If you don't want to give up, then don't.
It takes an incredible amount of self discipline to first find and then be able to maintain a balance between life and medicine. As I grew and became confident, I learned how to deal with social awkwardness. I think marriage means sacrifice on both sides. Having seen many examples of the disaster it becomes when a member spouse pushes, coerces, ultimatums the non-member spouse into being baptized, I have very assiduously steered clear of those methods from the start. Does she understand that for a long-term relationship to succeed that the partners must treat each other as equals. I am so happy to have found this blog.
Did you know Joseph smith married the wives of other living men. She honestly believes that she has the truth, and that if you are exposed to it enough you will recognize that. He puts no effort forth toward our marriage - he has no time or energy to do so. My relationship is the same way. She asked me not to contact her so that she could have the space she needed at this time. The important part of finding a partner to marry does not, in my opinion, revolve around whether or not you are of the same religion. I stand by my original statement. I'll keep being me and we'll see what happens. A lot of people are religious.
It is not the norm. As a matter of fact, you can begin here. He was my first boyfirend and is an amazing husband. It is only a few marriages I have seen make it where the female is the physician in the couples we have known in my husband's thirteen year career. But on the main page of exmormon Reddit on the side bar there is a link to a site with links to all the pages on LDS. Here is a list of reasons I feel apply to my situation в some of them in retrospect:. You can ask her directly, or through sources like other Mormons or reading their books.