If I were you, I would just nope out of it and move on. Now that I am married, it has become more apparent that his previous comments about not minding if his wife has a career, were not entirely accurate. With such high standards of perfection, Mormon girls want a man who validates their efforts and confidently provides directionвa man who expects them to be beautiful. On top of his work schedule, there are other demands on his time like his family and friends. Most mormon girls look at guys like you as a project and that they have a lifetime to work on the project. We're generally very happy when we're together, but like everyone else, it isn't always easy to find the time between his schedule and mine. Like, she thought that serving would remedy her of any doubts or testimony issues. From reading the above posts from previous posters, please keep in mind that while it helps to read and learn from each others' experiences as we are all in the same boat -- we must also make the distinction between someone's occupation and their personality or character. It's not that she doesn't believe you right now, but it is a bone she will never drop.
Dress nicely, as the girl will appreciate the effort put into looking good for her, and encourage her to do the same. Thank you thank you for writing this blog. My experience with non members has been so much more meaningful and caring. Joanna has written a good answer here. In her letter to herself as a young doctor, Dr.
It gives people a sense of purpose, while pressuring them to be 'good' by their book. Breaking up with someone solely because of religion is something people condemn alot on this sub when its a Mormon breaking it off with a non Mormon, but if floats both ways. Submit a new link.
Also, I'm sorry that things didn't work out for you with that guy: I'm sure you will meet someone else that's just as wonderful but treats you better if you haven't yet. It's a fairly new relationship and I don't want to jump to any conclusions. YOUR prayers are just as efficacious as a priesthood holders are. My next serious boyfriend was raised Methodist but considered himself non-denominational Christian and people would comment on that instead of his character. Living in an interfaith, marriage can be hell. This is such a misinformed statement. My Buddhist husband likes Mormons and even going to church. Do you really love him, honey. They think highly enough of themselves, don't add to their ego.