And they manage to get the time for it. He was lonely, as was she. Your post could have been written by me, in August. If yes, do you promise to not proselytize to me and let me drink a simple cup of coffee in my own home.
I am married to an ER doc and agree that having your own life, being independent, and not going into the relationship with any preconceived notions is what makes it work for us. I figured he may still be finding his feet in his residency and as we grow closer, he might start putting in more effort. I'm sorry this was so longwinded and not really an answer to your questions. It's so sad to think that people so young will be stuck wearing 19th century undies when they should enjoy their years of being young and stylish. There have been many times my husband or I have actually said something like "it is good that I am committed to our marriage because this is not fun". By the way, I have had to get another job to help make ends meet. While it's true that Mormons are not one-dimensional and completely predictable, the odds of a successful relationship, given the OP's description of his girlfriend, are slim. Does He Like Me - Signs.
Because what are Mormons about. You've all been so helpful. I would leave him note reminding him how important his work was. And as many posters stated, it is something that needs to be seriously discussed with your potential partner.
Also, I want to be fully supportive of his dreams and what he wants to become. Notify me of new comments via email. I give input into our activities for dates, and this works out well since we're very compatible and like spending leisure time the same way. If he has to work late call a girlfriend or paint a picture. But at the hospital, I'm helping the other guy who was injured when his car wrecked six hours ago, and I can't just bail.