Their thinking is something like this. Am I that woman. I would love to someday find myself sitting in the pew with you, sharing this amazing journey. I've been dating my girl for 5 years and we have just broke up because she told me she likes someone else but she say she still loves me I have been married for 8 months, my husband is starting his training in orthopaedics Never imagined my life will be like this The 3 years we were together prior marriage when he was an intern were not like this at all I read all the comments and I can see there no much hope for things to improve Constant absences, constants arguments, I have to make myself available when he is available, I am an architect, I have a demanding job myself, but still beings doctor seems to be a lot more important than my career. It's in the Mormon DNA. You need to repent and change. If you are worries about her or her family trying to convert you, be honest. I was skeptical whether this would work with Mormon girlsв sheltered girls who would never step inside a dance club or be wooed by pickup artists. I married a non-member over 20 years ago. It is not something that should be taken lightly.
Trust Building Exercises for Couples. A lot of people will tell you to run but if she is in her late 20s most Mormon guys her age are married. I mean, I get where it comes from but it's so ridiculous. She's a shell of her former self and it breaks by heart to this day. And as many posters stated, it is something that needs to be seriously discussed with your potential partner. You would be able to force her to confront the facts without feeling threatened.
The first key question to as is: If the answer is yes then the relationship sounds like it's doomed. If she was anything like me, that idea is probably foreign, radical, confusing, interesting, and inspiring to her. When my wife and I married, we were very different, but I found all the differences delightful. I am engaged to a Doctor and I must say that all this posts are kinda scary. But actions speak louder than words. Raising our children as believers is proving to be very tricky. Take the crazy and add a ton of even crazier shit on on top and Your girlfriend literally believes in a book of scripture that was produced from a rock in Josephs Hat. There are plenty of marriages between Mormons and non-Mormons. She will want her kids blessed, baptized, taking temple trips to baptize for the dead, hold the priesthood, a bishop will ask you sons and daughters if they masterbate and punish them if they do, etc.
You should start raising CES letter issues with her and see how she handles it. He loves me and would do anything to make me happy. If you think your girlfriend's resistance to being exposed to anything critical of Mormonism sounds cult-like, you are right. If she is full on Mormon, this relationship will go one of two ways: You will convert and change your entire lifestyle and personality to conform with her expectations never to deconvert or you will face severe penalitesor you will break up because you won't convert and change everything about yourself. Find someone who is available to you and successful.