Love the man you are going to marry- warts and all he loves yours as well. Best of luck, and God bless. Make sure she is Even after that, the Church discourages them from entering serious relationships before they are considering marriage. The reality, however, has been far from it, as the small number of wives we do have in the program seem to be busy raising their kids or not really interested in developing these relationships. Her home time is exclusively for the kids and paper work. After residency, depending on what specialty they do, there will be a separate set of rules of how they have to give their time oncall, early surgery times, working holidays etc. This is by design. You can always expand these into group dates by inviting other couples along, which may make her more comfortable in the early stages of your relationship. But God works in mysterious ways.
Yeah, I think we need to have that talk I've been putting off. The most important thing is an open dialogue, as you say, and utmost respect for the other person. He actually wanted them to be active in a religion and thought this was a good idea. And to top things off, last night I caught him cheating. If he is the right person for me, then I would wait and deal with the busy schedule in the meantime. And if you do belong to a ward full of cretins, you must do everyone a favor and just ignore them until they go extinct. Im a 19 year old female who is pre med at a university right now. Do you have any specific suggestions for discussion about content on LDS. That is a hard truth.
The closet is deep though I think that's seriously generalizing. But remember that it is also your wife's choice to obey or disobey, and that you have no authority over her as a person, either. I have been married to an anesthesiologist for 15 years his 2nd marriage. I'm not saying you shouldn't pursue the relationship, but I'd only recommend marrying her if she leaves the church because she discovers it's not true. I am just short of living in a shelter because he has all of his pay going into a separate account for just him now and he has given access tot he account to his mistress. It is nice to hear that I am not alone, and that we can do it. If she is open to questioning her faith, perhaps she can chase you down.
Listen to the still small voiceв. As our relationship has progressed, this vague hypothetical question has led to some much more concrete thinking about what an interfaith marriage would be like for me, for him, and for us. Take what you read with a grain of salt. But now he is a senior doc and is called on for all the difficult stuff and can't or won't say no. It would behoove you in this situation to act like a kid yourself. So, I'm in a relationship with a 3rd year med student and we are trying to find a date to get married.