Best to all of you, and may God Fate help us all. While dating is a good time to get to know someone, if you are young it is better to go on group dates. At parties, they drink soda and play board games.
She has to come to the realization that the church may not be infallible, it can't be forced on her or proven to her. And even when they are home with you Expectations of time together is a mirage. Find someone who isn't part of a cult. Anecdotes vs a much larger sample size. You can have all the time in the world and not be committed. Many others have asked the same question in the past so you may want to find those and read the responses there.
Eventually you will get engaged and married and have babies and buy a house together. LDSdotOrg is mostly propaganda. My First and only Blind Date in Japan. I would have to say absolutely NOT!!!!. I can be part of a church family whether my spouse goes or not. Anonymous, You are definitely one of the the club. From her summary, he just did not understand her dilemma at all. Mormonism and Non-Mormonism don't link to future lives.
As far as as race and the priesthood, Mormons still believe the priesthood ban was divinely inspired. Good luck and best wishes as you head back out into the dating pool. Note, her mind and TSCC were married first. That contributes to status in her culture. Say goodbye to all that. I grew up in Utah, attended BYU, and served a mission. Sorry you had to go through this, but it's for the best if she's about to leave on a mission.