I cried watching Kung fu panda 2. Never ask vague questions and give her definite options instead. You can always expand these into group dates by inviting other couples along, which may make her more comfortable in the early stages of your relationship.
When he doesn't have his patience he has his family who seem more and more to have self inflicted issues they gamble, drink and smoke which lead to health issues and bills. We also noticed a change in all of our parents and children alike moods. To her, if you don't marry in the temple, she will probably do it after you die anyway. It's like a catch or something.
Trust me, I too tried to make it work with my very Mormon also returned missionary ex-girlfriend. Hi, I'm so glad to be able to enter this forum. The LDS Church meets many of the criteria for cult behavior. Sure it's lonely and hard work being a "single parent". She, her family, and her friends all believe that she can't get into the Celestial Kingdom VIP Heaven unless she is "sealed" to a Mormon husband. Mormons think when you die, based on if you were a good person cough cough atheists you go to spirit "paradise" where they will teach you the gospel. I completely agree with you. The importance of modesty.
I don't think I'm eligible to advice, but I would say be prepared to be independent and make lots of friends. Sexually, risque and the such is essentially the same as baptists and fundamental Christians. The woman gets fidgety after three days on vacation. You'll question your parenting decisions but he won't be involved in supporting you because he'll have no idea what's going on and little interest. I am a happily married mono-faith guy who has no testimony of dusted base boards. With his compartmentalized mind, if I walk away, he will close that door and move on. There is much that needs to change and many hearts to educate but if we doubt some of the fundamentals then why not all of them. She was fine marrying in an LDS church instead of the temple, didn't want to convert me, and most importantly didn't try to change my beliefs or opinions.